I know you’ve read about the Worship Pastor Residency we began at Fellowship this fall. The new resident and I have been getting to know each other well over the past few months. We’re meeting regularly to discuss what’s going on, books we’re reading, etc. Yesterday I had the bright idea to meet on the racquetball court.
Did I mention he just got out of college?
I’ve been bugging people to play me, and I should have known better when he readily accepted. In fact, I’m remembering now that when he asked the last time I played I told him it’s been about three or four years, he said, “really.” Now I know that wasn’t a “man I’m sorry” really, but a “I think I’m going to whip your #@$” really. Excuse the symbols. Actually, I’m pleased to report that no symbols came out of my mouth until the third game. That makes me glad to type--we really made it to a third game.
Did I mention he’s 23?
I could always hold my own on the racquetball court. Yes, “could” is the operative word. That was back in college. We played a lot then ... 18 years ago. @$*#! I’m glad I just finished C.J. Mahaney’s book, Humility: True Greatness. I put it into practice. In fact, we were discussing a book we’re reading called Flashbang: How I Got Over Myself. One of my favorite books. Why? Because I learned about five years ago that I needed to get over myself. I was reminded of that today--intensely--for one hour.
Did I mention he played tennis in college?
After the first game, I decided to not talk so much. I attribute the 15-0 defeat to my jovial nature, keeping things light and fun. The second game ended at 15-2. Progress. In the third game we were tied at one point, before he pulled away to a 15-3 win. The way I see it is that if we just had time, after about 14 more games I would have won. Just ran out of time.
Humility. It’s an endearing trait. I practiced it yesterday. As I was walking to my car he made some crack about Advil. I just waved as I was concentrating on keeping my balance. Honestly, it was fun and I’m sure we’ll play again. I think he got a kick out of it. Oh, at one point I did tell him he was fired. That ought to help him with his humility.
Ah, yes... the moment it begins to dawn on us that we aren't young anymore. Hmmm...
Welcome to reality, Rob! :o)
How ya feeling today? If I had to wager a guess, I would say, "Methinks your muscles doth protesteth too much!" Ha ha ha.
Posted by: Michelle Richardson | September 2008 at 09:29 AM
I did not know you played raquetball! Book a date with the 3 of us and I'll beat you both. Humbly of course.
Posted by: Carl | September 2008 at 11:12 PM